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Your daughter's first gynae visit: a guide for parents

When a teenage gynaecology visit makes sense, what happens on the day, and how to help your daughter feel at ease.

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In short: a first teenage gynaecology visit is mostly a conversation about periods, growing up and health questions. An internal examination is rarely needed. It is worth booking if periods are very heavy, painful or irregular, have not started by 15, or if your daughter has questions about discharge, the HPV vaccine or sexual health.

When should my daughter see a gynaecologist?

There is no set age. Many families book a first visit in the early to mid teens, or sooner if something is worrying. Reasons to book include:

  • Periods that have not started by age 15
  • Periods that soak through protection every one to two hours, or last more than seven days
  • Period pain that causes missed school or is not helped by simple pain relief
  • Cycles that are still very irregular two to three years after periods started
  • Unusual discharge, itching or soreness
  • Questions about the HPV vaccine, contraception or sexual health

What happens at the visit?

The visit usually starts with a chat about general health, periods and any concerns. Height, weight and blood pressure may be checked. If a scan is needed, it can often be done over the tummy rather than internally. Any examination is only done if it is needed, and is always explained and agreed first.

Will I be in the room?

Parents are welcome, and many teens prefer to have a parent there for part of the visit. It is also good practice to give young people some time to speak to the doctor on their own, so they can ask questions they may feel shy about. The doctor will explain how their information is kept private, and when it would need to be shared to keep them safe.

How can we prepare?

  • Track periods for a few months with a calendar or app: start dates, length and how heavy they are.
  • Write down questions beforehand, so nothing is forgotten on the day.
  • Bring a list of any medicines or supplements, and the vaccination record.

Should my daughter have the HPV vaccine?

The HPV vaccine protects against the virus types that cause most cervical cancers and works best when given before any exposure to HPV. In Singapore it is offered to girls in Secondary 1 through the school programme. If your daughter missed it, ask about catching up.

Teens under the clinic's care can email questions at any time, and the clinic aims to reply within one working day. For anything urgent, call +65 6535 8833, or 995 in a life-threatening emergency.

This article is general information and does not replace a consultation with a doctor. If you are worried about your health, please book a visit or, in an emergency, call +65 6535 8833.

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